What I saw in my students socially:
Along with a lack of attention to detail, I began to notice kids struggling with social skills. I have some pretty strong feelings about this, some of which you may or may not agree with. Let's just say that a perfect storm of technology combined with pressure for schools to compete with who-knows-or-cares, and our youngest learners aren't getting the time they need to learn how to talk and play with each other.
I can't just blame schools, though. The responsibility for social skills lies as much at home as it does in the classroom, if not more. But, this isn't a post about our societal systems, it's about what I decided to do.
How do we help students grow?
If kids are struggling emotionally these days, what can you do to help them grow?
In a world that is constantly changing, it is becoming increasingly important for students to develop not only academic skills but also positive character traits, traits that will serve them well throughout their lives.
From resilience and empathy to creativity and leadership, these qualities are essential for personal growth and success in the classroom and ultimately, in adulthood. This is not an easy fix for educators, in fact, to be successful, our entire culture needs it to be important. And we are not there.
Include SEL activities in the classroom:
When I held class meetings, I became painfully aware that some kids struggled to express their emotions, some couldn't manage their frustration, and others didn't pick up on cues well. Sixth graders are wonderfully welcoming! But, as the year goes on, they become less so, and often that continues into middle school, where everyone is judging themselves against others.
So, I decided to combine two areas that my students needed to work on: grammar and social-emotional skills.
I thought about the circumstances that caused challenges for social-emotional learning in my classroom and came up with this list:
- calling out in class
- working with a substitute
- feeling pressure to be different
- cutting
- sharing grades
- parents divorcing
- losing control
- mean kids
- best friends who change over time
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